Why You Shouldn’t Buy Anything On Black Friday

There’s only one Black Friday strategy you need to win, and collectors of frequent flyer miles are very familiar with this thinking already because there’s a trap we all have to be careful not to fall into. I wrote “This Game Is Not For You If…” about mistakes people make with mileage-earning credit cards.

  • If you don’t pay off your bill in full each month, don’t pay attention to credit card rewards pay attention to your interest rate (and getting the card paid off as quickly as you can)

  • And do not spend more money than you would otherwise spend because you’re using a credit card, or because you ‘need’ the spending to hit a bonus. On average people using credit cards do spend more than those using cash, though a number of factors influence that result.

The same thing is true chasing other mileage deals. You need to watch your costs. And Black Friday is no different. You didn’t think Black Friday was for your benefit, did you? The idea is to get you to spend more money than you’d otherwise spend by offering deals at a time that’s become focal for customers.

Stay disciplined. Do not buy things simply because they are a ‘good deal’ relative to their usual price. You wouldn’t have paid that price anyway, so you aren’t saving money compared to that price if you make a purchase. Here’s ow I know you wouldn’t have paid that price: you didn’t buy it already.

There may be things you have in your purchase path already. Those are what you should consider buying on Black Friday.

  • Know what you want to buy those are the things to buy, not shiny things you see along the way.

  • Know what those things normally cost, so you can identify how deep a discount you’re getting. Don’t go through big effort for small discounts that you can get any time — more importantly if it’s a deal you can get later, why not wait? And that’s for reasons other than time value of money, you can always think more about whether you really need it. The worst time to buy something is when you feel pressure to do so. Always be willing to walk away when a car salesman tells you about the other buyers looking at the car you think you want.

  • Know how much you’re willing to spend. And know how that changes if what’s offered is slightly different than the ideal item you were considering.

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Buy the things you would consider buying anyway when they’re offered for substantially less money than you would otherwise have to pay. And that’s it.

Often we buy things because of the excitement, because there’s buzz around a good deal, or because all of a sudden it seems like a good idea. I prefer not buying things. I consider them. I may even add them to my shopping cart. Then I go remove things, reconsidering whether I actually need it or even wanted it as much as I thought.

Back when I was in my early 20s and started working right out of college my first job paid $21,000 a year. I earned some quick raises over my first few months — to $23,000 and then $24,500 and after a year to $30,500. Once I made over $30,000 I got my own apartment (a very small unit in a bit of a rundown area sandwiched between two bowling alleys).

I’d go shopping but I wouldn’t just buy things. Instead I’d walk around and I’d consider. That helped me not buy a lot more than I’d buy. The truth is I don’t need that much stuff and don’t want it piling up. I still try to practice that today even though I can afford more than I could back then.

There are so many things that seem like a good idea at the time that wind up in closets or in the trash. The diligent among us might resell them online.

I’m not saying ‘don’t buy nice things’ or even ‘only buy what you need’. I’ve never been a ‘financial independence retire early’ guy because I actually like my work (I still have a full time job in addition to this blog and other endeavors in travel). I’m simply saying be disciplined and that impulse purchases are often suboptimal choices.

Your key to Black Friday sales is not to buy a lot more than you buy, and only buy the things you figured out you wanted or needed anyway.

About Gary Leff

Gary Leff is one of the foremost experts in the field of miles, points, and frequent business travel - a topic he has covered since 2002. Co-founder of frequent flyer community InsideFlyer.com, emcee of the Freddie Awards, and named one of the "World's Top Travel Experts" by Conde' Nast Traveler (2010-Present) Gary has been a guest on most major news media, profiled in several top print publications, and published broadly on the topic of consumer loyalty. More About Gary »

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  1. My strategy is to buy only things that I can return. It’s hard to decide if those binoculars I’ve wanted are worth it. Get them and then be willing to return them if I snag something else I’d rather have. That eliminates the “ oh if I had only bought those binoculars”.

  2. “You know how I know you wouldn’t have paid that price? The very fact that you didn’t buy it already.”

    That’s essentially what the cop said when I told him I usually wear my seat belt.

  3. How about black friday travel strategy?
    (1) Buy points with BF bonus? -Nah, unless you have immediate redemption in mind. No reason to stockpile when it’s not clear if you can use them for a while
    (2) Buy BR discounted hotel rooms (speculative)? Maybe, but only if fully refundable. Makes sense if you can plan a year ahead, so long as you can cancel. Make no sense to buy nonrefundable outside your country, with travel bans still in place.
    (3) Buy discounted airline tix? This makes some sense depending on your time horizon, but keep in mind that even though there is no change fee your $$$ may still be non-refundable which means you will have 365 days to travel (maybe longer depending on airline).

  4. Excellent reminder, thank you! Seems we all like to chase deals, and much of what we buy ends up unused at Goodwill or the landfill.

  5. @ Gary — This advice is out of date. Nearly everyone I have ever bought anything from is having a sale today
    I will selectively stock up on things that I would otherwise buy soon anyway. Like contact lenses I would buy in February or LifeMiles I would buy in July, etc. I’ll take 15% off now as a good inflation hedge.

  6. Great advice. I hope those that need it heed it.

    I had a lot of fun working and traveling. Still traveling for fun.

    Really wish we had less “stuff”, but having it hasn’t damaged our financial health.

    My points philosophy: Earning them has to be incidental to what I would do any way. The only exception was a couple of mileage runs to keep Diamond the last year I had it.

    Thanks for you point of view and the posts.

  7. thanks, gary for the sensible post. i just shamed on gilbert ott for creating some of this hype. i have week-long hotels booked in san fran and new york in early 2022 and saved 30% by not waiting til the prices went UP on black friday. so did samsonite luggage. bf is for the sloppy ones

  8. Stocked up on things I routinely purchase. Discounts are great today, and Rakuten offering insane bonuses for most sites makes it extremely lucrative from a MR earning standpoint. Earned at least 20k today alone

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