Why U.S. Airlines Stopped Selling Flight Attendant Sex Appeal, While Asian Carriers Still Police Age, Weight, And Looks

“Coffee, tea or me.” Flight attendants used to be sex symbols. They were young, attractive, thin – and airlines required them to be unmarried and therefore ‘available’. That isn’t true anymore, and U.S. airlines aren’t allowed to hire for this even though many of their competitors around the world still do. Should they be allowed to compete with sex? I’d argue it’s not just illegal, it’s no longer needed either, and customers don’t actually demand it the way they once did.

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National Airlines flight attendants used to invite passengers to “Fly Me.”

Braniff declared, “Even An Airline Hostess Should Look Like A Girl” and promoted flight attendants ‘stripping’ or changing uniforms for different stages of flight.

The airline business in the U.S. has changed significantly, but it hasn’t changed everywhere. Here’s why U.S. airlines don’t sell sex anymore, and part of it is the same reason they don’t serve food that’s nearly as good either.

The Three Forces That Ended Flight Attendant Sexualization In America

U.S. cabin crew standards are completely different than they were in the 1960s, and there are generally three factors that have driven this change.

• Deregulation. The government set prices, and they were intentionally set high to ensure profits. The government sought to prevent ‘ruinous competition’ but since they weren’t allowed to compete on price, airlines competed on food, service, and providing their mostly male customers (whose businesses could afford the tickets) with an ‘experience.’

  1978 airline deregulation drove down price, changed how airlines competed, and also changed the mix of passengers so that male business travelers no longer dominated in the same way. (Related, in that earlier era United actually had flights that banned women.)

  Airlines used to compete by spending more on food, since they couldn’t lower price. Each ticket was profitable, so they needed to find a way to attract passengers. Another way to ‘attract’ passengers was young women as cabin crew.

• 3 court cases – culminating in the famous Southwest “Love Airlines” case – interpreting civil rights law. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 barred employment discrimination based on sex, and flight attendants used that to upend hiring and employment rules. A trio of cases were important here.
  1. Diaz v. Pan Am, 1971: Pan Am tried to justify hiring only women as flight attendants. The Fifth Circuit rejected the idea that being female was necessary to the job.

  2. Sprogis v. United, 1971: United’s no-marriage rule for stewardesses was struck down. The court said United had shown no rational connection between marital status and job performance, especially since male stewards were not subject to the same rule.

  3. Wilson v. Southwest, 1981: Since Southwest Airlines was based at Love Field in Dallas, they began promoting the ‘love’ theme. LUV is their ticker symbol. Their automated ticketing machines were called “Quickies.” Snacks were “Love Bites.” And flight attendants wore hot pants and gogo boots in a uniform designed by Juanice Muse, the wife of the airline’s first President.

     

     Southwest argued that female sex appeal was part of its brand. The court rejected that, holding that male applicants could perform the actual flight attendant and ticket agent functions and that sex appeal was not a lawful bona fide occupational qualification because the essence of the Southwest Airlines business was transportation not sexual allurement (a business that was explicitly sexual in nature could discriminate in this way).

     The EEOC then summarized the rule that female sex is not a bona fide occupational qualification for airline flight attendant jobs, and customer preference does not create a bona fide occupational qualification. The broader legal shift both reflected a cultural change, and helped to drive further change.

• Unionization and seniority. Unions fought mandatory retirement, schedules are handed out based on seniority which means older flight attendants dominate, and as airlines went through multiple waves of struggle they would freeze hiring rather than growing and the average age of flight attendants went up.

Overt Sexualization Remains In Parts Of Asia, Especially Among Low Cost Carriers

Low labor costs in South Asia mean that a ‘sex sells’ approach is cheap, and is often used to replace premium products and service. (The costs work differently than they did in the United States.) Since these are ‘good jobs’ in societies where women may have more limited options, there’s a steady supply of young women available to take these roles.

SpiceJet has had age, height, weight and marital standards for new flight attendants. The carrier has also insisted on “[p]leasing personality with an unblemished complexion and good body language.”

Malaysian airline Malindo Air has required potential flight attendants to disrobe in their interviews.

The airline’s director of public relations said, “It is the right of the employer to request potential flight attendants to expose their chests to interviewers.” He also suggested that “most airlines do the same” because “cabin crew needed to be presentable.”

• They were required to remove their tops (but may leave their bra on) “to see if applicants had visible marks” and if they do, where those marks are on the body. The airline’s uniform is “partially see-throughs” however it includes “a corset inside and if it is covered by the corset, it is okay.”

• They also had to “bare their legs thigh-high” because female uniforms have long slits so “[w]e need to know if there are scars or any marks as you can see their legs when they walk.” But don’t worry,

  “The slit is also tailored in such a manner where it will enable flight attendants to move around easily, especially during an emergency.”

At AirAsia, is it really the meals they’re promoting as ‘hot’?

Low cost carrier VietJet was even more explicit. Founded by Vietnam’s first self-made female billionaire, they became known as ‘the bikini airline’.

China’s Hainan Airlines stopped letting female flight attendants fly if they hit 10% above the airline’s weight limit (“height (cm) minus 110 = standard weight (kg)”).

Air India required flight attendants they deemed overweight to lose 5 pounds per month and Malaysia Airlines fired a female flight attendant for being 1.5 pounds overweight for her height, based on the airline’s standards.

Premium Asian Carriers Remain More Subtle In Their Approach

Many Asian long haul carriers, especially flag carriers, remain invested in a premium image and choreographed service: the bow, the uniform, specified makeup and hairstyle, and even posture. This isn’t explicitly sexual but the idea of ‘Asian hospitality’ is graceful, feminine, attentive, elegant, and composed.

On those airlines, the flight attendant is still partly a hospitality symbol. At Singapore Airlines, each flight attendant spends one and a half days of their training on hair and makeup. They receive a grooming card that outlines the (limited) range of choices they have. There are 5 approved hairstyles, but each woman is told which ones she is allowed to use. There are specific colors for their makeup, and they may be given only one or — if they’re ‘more advanced’ or experienced in making themselves up — two they are allowed to use.

After the first day of training some women will spend up to 4 hours getting ready for class, to ensure they look perfect. The standards are new to them and they’re obviously trying to impress during training. I’m told that on average a woman may take an hour doing her hair and makeup for a flight.

The cabin crew aesthetic became part of national soft power and product differentiation at carriers like Singapore Airlines, Cathay Pacific, Thai, Korean Air, Asiana, EVA, and others. And consumers still associate “good service” with formality, youth, and deference.

Cathay Pacific eventually agreed to allow female flight attendants to wear pants after staff complained that short skirts made work harder and invited harassment. Korean Air has ended its high heel requirement and allows sneakers. So there’s change here, too.