Some flyers believe that the best thing to do when your plane lands is to remain seated until it’s their turn to get off of the aircraft. They shake their heads, wondering why people stand up when they can’t really go anywhere until the doors of the aircraft open, and everyone ahead of them gets off first. This view is sometimes expressed in harsh terms, mocking those who stand immediately. But it’s also 100% wrong.
You may not get anywhere (much) more quickly, but you might be more comfortable and crucially by using all the available space in the aircraft you’re helping other passengers be more comfortable, too.
The prevailing view is expressed in this shirt making the rounds in social media: “Standing up as soon as the airplane stops won’t help you get off sooner.”
It turns out that versions of this shirt are for sale all over the internet.
The overwhelming majority of people seem to get frustrated and annoyed with passengers who stand up immediately after landing, especially on short flights. They perceive this behavior as inconsiderate and disruptive to the deboarding process.
Mostly they think it’s selfish, and doesn’t help speed up the deplaning process. They want people to follow their (imagined) rules. They’re also very wrong.
To be sure, you should be polite when you get up. Don’t try to run past everyone else in the aisles or climb over other passengers. But also, don’t react this way to passengers trying to make progress when the plane comes to a complete stop and the seat belt sign is turned off.
There are three reasons to get up right away – why it benefits you and most importantly benefits your fellow passengers.
- Getting ready to deplane, including getting things out of the overhead bin, speeds up the process. That means getting everyone off the aircraft a couple of minutes faster. And that means more people make tight connections (which is polite to your fellow travelers). It also means allowing those couple of minutes for cleaners to get on board and clean the aircraft (polite to the cleaners, letting them do their job, and polite to the next passengers on the plane). It helps with the airline’s operation, too, which makes them more efficient and holds down costs and ultimately fares.
- It’s polite to the middle seat passenger who’s been stuck in place for hours when the person in the aisle seat gets up into the aisle. When you no longer have to have seat belts fastened, you want to take advantage of all of the space in the aircraft. The aisle seat passenger gets into the aisle, the middle seat passenger now has the space of the aisle seat to spread into, and the window seat passenger has a bit more elbow room as well. Why wouldn’t you use all of the space in the aircraft for comfort?
- You’ve been stuck in an uncomfortable seat for hours, why not stand as soon as you can? Especially in an era of less-padded slimline seats, it’s time to give your back a rest.
There’s really little benefit to remaining seated until it’s your row’s turn to deplane. While there’s no obligation to cram into the aisles immediately (except perhaps an obligation to make a little room for the passenger in the middle seat to stretch out), it’s not reasonable to criticize passengers for getting up to stretch, and to get their carry on bags down in order to deplane efficiently.
So go ahead and stand as soon as your plane lands and arrives at the gate. Don’t wait until everyone in the rows ahead of you has had their turn to get off the plane. This helps everyone stretch out a little bit, and move faster off the plane, which benefits other passengers, the airline, and ultimately you too. It’s the sort of forward-leaning behavior that separates expert travelers from the masses who are doing it wrong.
Gary and the experts are right on this–but ‘you do you,’ and don’t expect anyone else to care.
Yes, do not stand when the plane lands. You can injure yourself or others if standing while the plane is taxiing.
Anyone else notice how this is the norm on early Monday morning heavy-business routes and a mainline can unload in ten minutes while on a mid-week or Saturday arrival in Florida there are complaints from the elderly/tourists and it takes 30 minutes to unload?
“experts” Gary? Who exactly is an expert at getting out of a plane and where do they get this expertise from? Is there a school for this? An apprenticeship program? or are you just calling them experts because they agree with you?
When the planes stops at the gate, passengers should be getting ready to deplane. By staying seated, you are delaying everyone behind you from a speedier exit. I have witnessed too many times the people that stay seated until everyone in front of them is walking off the plane, that then pop up, have to gather all the items in their seat and then unload multiple rollaboards. By the time they start heading up the aisle, there is no one on the plane in front of them. It adds at least 1 minute (at the very least) to everyone behind them. Now multiply that by the number of people staying seated until the last second and you are delaying people in the back of the plane by 10+ minutes.
If people want to sit until the gangway is clear ahead of them, then they should choose to stay there until everyone behind them exits the plane.
Gary, Give up your crusade to have everyone jump out of their seats as soon as the “ding” sounds. Not everyone, especially in rows 3 and further back, need to jam the aisles and create annoyances with their rude and boorish behavior to gain a few seconds in deplaning. You need to accept the fact that not everyone agrees with you, so a monthly posting on deplaning etiquette (from your point of view) is entirely unnecessary.
“Getting ready to deplane, including getting things out of the overhead bin, speeds up the process”
By a marginal amount, if any.
“It’s polite to the middle seat passenger who’s been stuck in place for hours”
Not if you’re the window seat person and are now either trying to force your way past them or because of the low headroom looming over them.
“You’ve been stuck in an uncomfortable seat for hours, why not stand as soon as you can?”
Because then I’m stuck standing in intimately close relations with a random assortment of people, getting hit by luggage coming out of the overheads, and having to deal with the twerps who want to push their way forward.
Wow, those were the three reasons you have? They’re not even remotely convincing.
I agree with your 3 points.
Frankly, I do not care what people in the rows in front of or behind want. I will get up when I want to. And that is at the ding. If you want to stay seated, go right ahead. But, to be perfectly clear, you do not get to tell me to stay seated. Go right ahead and get steamed, I do not care.
These are the same people who merge on the highway 1/2 mile before being required to, thereby wasting their (and others’) time. They think they are being “polite,” when they are not.
https://www.acg.aaa.com/connect/blogs/4c/auto/zipper-merge-keeps-traffic-moving#:~:text=Does%20the%20zipper%20merge%20reduce,speed%2C%20and%20decrease%20road%20rage.
Very fair points, I can see arguments for both sides. Especially having sat down for multiple hours, it’s nice to stand up and stretch the legs a bit when you have the chance (another benefit of the aisle). In that regard perhaps standing up, getting a good stretch and sitting back down is a good balance.
Social pressure, as evidenced by the premise of these posts, is a big barrier to not doing that. Maybe we’ll get to the point when it’s socially acceptable to do either!
@American — This is the way. The ‘ding’ is where it’s at. Right-on!
@L737 — Sorry, buddy, we ‘part ways’ on this one. I’m a ‘ding’-bat, I suppose. Sometimes you gotta ‘pick a side’–and don’t let the ‘social pressure’ decide for ya. We’re just talkin’ deplaning, right?
I also don’t give AF what everyone who wants to stay seated thinks. You want to stay seated? Good for you. You can even stay until everyone else deplanes.
As soon as the plane is at the gate and the seat belt ding dings, I’m standing up. Those extra few seconds? I need them for the 32 minute connections from A to E at CLT.
There are plenty of people who have a difficult time getting their bags out of overhead bins. My standing up in the aisle and pulling down bags for 4′ 11″ ladies gets things moving faster. Getting out of my aisle seat (I also pull up the arm rest) lets the middle seat passenger spread out a bit for the 10-15 minutes it might take until they can actually start moving. Also, by hopping up, I create space for the bags that I pull down from the overhead bins.
Where are people going when they stand up? They still have to stand there clogging the aisles and wait for the entire airplane in front of them to deplane. And then they are blocking the ability for anyone else to get their bags out from the overhead (which is often a row ahead or behind because of other people filling up the “appointed” ones). Standing up when the rows in front of you begin to move takes the exact same amount of time.
If I’m in the aisle seat, I stand up when it dings. I open the overheads around me. I pull my bag out and that of my wife (usually in the aisle across from me) if there is room. I’ll assist others with their bags too. I don’t knock anyone in their heads with my bags. I don’t move forward to try to deplane earlier. All of this makes deplaning for everyone more efficient. That’s not up for debate.
Of course, if the flight is late, and the FAs ask, I’ll stay seated for those with tight connections, but so many don’t that it never works.
Do I get ever so slightly annoyed with those in front of me who don’t move until it’s time for their row. Not really. It would be more efficient if they had at least opened the overhead where their bag is, but it’s their choice. Bottom line, I’m not buying a t shirt claiming my choice is better for everyone (but I believe it is). Gary is right.
A different, but related question is, why do some people unbuckle their seatbelts as soon as the plane lands?
@Kevin — Woohoo, another one for the ‘ding’ team.
I thought minimum connection time (MCT) was 40 minutes for domestic at CLT. Unless ’32’ was just picking a random number, if the airline changes your schedule to something under the MCT, you usually can request a complimentary change to your itinerary (no change fee).
Gary had a previous post (from 2022) on tight connections in Charlotte:
https://viewfromthewing.com/a-warning-about-tight-connections-in-charlotte/
And also one about how CLT is a ‘nightmare’ for connections (from 2024):
https://viewfromthewing.com/navigating-chaos-why-charlottes-airport-is-a-nightmare-for-connecting-roundup/
Charlotte is a mess. The rocking chairs and old Admirals Club there do not make up for it.
We live in a time when people have a lot of opinions about other people. I keep my opinions to myself – unless it is the comment section on VFTW and then all of a sudden **I have a lot to say.**
If you’re seated in 42E then yeah maybe you might want to wait to standup. But it never ceases to amaze me the number of people that will sit there even as their row is up. Like no one wants to get off the a/c. No one has to go to the bathroom, no one has a connection to get to and might want to grab food, no one want to go home or get to their hotel, or no one has anyone waiting for them. They just want to spend more time sitting on an A321.
@Brian @George N Romey @Frequent Flyin’ Fool — That’s three more ‘ding’ers. Get up! Let’s go!
@Exec Plat — You’re out numbered. If you’re an EP–you should know better. Fine, stay behind.
@Joseph — You do you. We don’t kink-shame here… unless kink-shaming is your kink. Then…
“As soon as the plane is at the gate and the seat belt ding dings, I’m standing up. Those extra few seconds? I need them for the 32 minute connections from A to E at CLT.”
See, here’s the difference. I don’t do short connections, so I don’t have to sweat and puff and strain and try to carry all my luggage at high speed through the terminal. I can sit comfortably on the plane until it’s my turn, then grab my luggage, step out into a nicely clear aisle and make my way off the plane.
That you’re a rat on the treadmill doesn’t mean I have to run for bits of cheese.
@Total –You do you, isn’t that the point. And kudos on making the most of your travel experience. Depending on the airport, sometimes I prefer a longer layover–if eligible for that new DeltaOne lounge at JFK, like gimme 4 hours minimum.
I just love when your row comes up to deplane, and the one person in front of you stands in the aisle and slowly packs away their headphones/puts on their jacket – all the while there’s 100 more people waiting.
Stand up and take care of that before blocking the aisle.
My sister had to recently fly from Knoxville to Tampa (St. Pete actually) and the only nonstop option was Allegiant. She has no issue with that airline but admits the passengers can be “different”. On her flight the flight attendants were yelling down the aisle for passengers to stay seated until the plane stopped. She said there were passengers trying to get luggage down as the plane was still on final approach!
Gary; why must everyone adhere to your commuter mentality? must everyone travel with just a carry-on, limited time for connections, and anxiety?. Please find something else to advocate for, or something else to write about that would be positive and helpful. Let travelers live at their own rhythms of life, not the one that you have chosen.
Must get up to help my back or SCREAM!
My biggest pet peave is waiting on people getting off an airplane. Stand up, stay seated, doesn’t matter but you’d better be on the heels of the person in front of you walking off the plane. If that means standing up early to gather your things, then you should stand up before your row is ready to deplane.
As soon as the boat docks, everybody get up and rush to the exit.
As soon as the bus stops everybody get up and rush to the exit.
As soon the movie ends everybody get up and rush to the exit.
As soon as the game is over everybody get up and rush to the exit.
All this time I thought avoiding panic, confusion, injury, and pile-up at exits by exiting in an orderly fashion was the way to go. I stand corrected.
@1900 Very well, my next trip I’ll try both and pick a side — maybe save me a spot on the team. Also, agreed — if there’s a lounge I like at my connecting airport I prefer multi-hour layovers to properly enjoy it
@Kevin – This I am sympathetic to. A lot of people say why don’t you pay for a closer seat, your emergency is not mine, etc but if I’m where I need to be I don’t want to be the guy that holds up where you need to be, especially if that person already has travel anxiety or something happened that was out of their control
@Dan Frank – Fair enough, I find no fault with that logic
@Lu – I hear you, although in this case the arguments are being made that standing up at the ding actually helps with efficiency and deplaning in an orderly fashion
@Quimos–right on. Not everyone is commuting to DC to try and get their piece of cheese.
@jcil — And if you are gonna commute to DC, if you’re in the northeast corridor, do yourself a favor, just take the Acela (or drive). Those ‘shuttle’ flights from PHL, EWR, LGA, JFK are so often delayed, like, you spend more time flying than train/drive. Besides, that new Moynihan Train Hall at Penn Station is actually pretty cool. If only they’d get the new Acela fleet up and running sooner.
I agree 100% with Dan Frank.
Please name some of these “experts” and what makes them expert.
People who stay seated slow down process considerably. Especially those on aisle seats who could have had their bags down and ready, and during winter put coat on. How many times i see people wait, then by the time they move the whole airplane aisle is free.
I stand up because I’m tired of sitting down..And I don’t my area until it’s MY turn to exit. That’s it!
Regarding the second point about giving the middle seat person more space – this on occasions goes the other way. Everyone jumps up at the ding, and the aisle person stands up but are beaten to the aisle itself by their neighbors, left to stand at their seat. And they don’t sit down.
Now the middle seat is still stuck in a seat with his neighbors buttocks in his face, oftentimes closer than the owner would know. It’s only a few minutes butt it feels ver long.
You’ve fallen victim to a fake image. The text has on the bottom image has clearly been superimposed on the shirt. There isn’t a single crease and it’s perfectly even, despite the fact the shirt isn’t sitting evenly on the woman.
“The overwhelming majority of people seem to get frustrated and annoyed with passengers who stand up immediately after landing, especially on short flights. They perceive this behavior as inconsiderate and disruptive to the deboarding process.”
I do not think these statements are true. Every airplane I have been on has most people getting up soon after the seatbelt sign goes out unless specifically asked to remain seated so people with tight connections can exit first. I know that if I cannot get out or at least stand up in area of the empty seats, it takes me longer to get out and get my luggage.
That is the dumbest generalization and the most egregious case of citing opinion is fact that I’ve seen in a long time.
I am 6 ft 2 and standing up anywhere but dead center in the aisle is incredibly uncomfortable. And those who stand up next to me, while I’m still seated because I cannot stand up, do nothing but intrude on my space.
But congratulations for turning your opinion into an entire article.
I agree 100% with Totals first comment.
I just stay seated until I see. I have enough time to get my stuff out of the overhead before the line gets to me so I don’t delay anyone.
The shirt is all wrong. You can’t stand when you land. You have to wait until you are stopped at the gate.
This is so stupid. There are plenty of reasons to get up, and zero reasons not to.
This is so funny. If only people stood for those reasons. Maybe a few do but most are just trying to put themselves first and elbowing others to get to the overhead bins first.
Also it doesn’t make deplaning any faster because there are a dozen others ahead of them taking their time before they move delaying those who rushed to stand.
Only people who willingly look at both sides of the equation can be considered an “expert'” to me. Respect others in all ways on both sides of the equation. That is exit (or let others exist) in a very timely fashion and also don’t intrude onto others personal space.
The inference that can reasonably be drawn from the different points of view: experts – stand; passengers – remain seated, is that experts don’t fly as passengers; nor are passengers experts.
I totally disagree with this. It adds to the stress and chaos to have everyone milling about and standing up like something is about to happen. To the extent there is supposedly more space that is being utilized, it is immediately taken up by people getting their bags down and squeezing everybody or possibly dropping their bag on the other person standing up in the aisle right next to them. And also, if you are still sitting down, you are almost certainly going to have someone’s ass right in your face. How about you just wait to get up until the deplaning is at least within a couple rows of you? That still provides plenty of time to get your bag down and walk out immediately.
Sitter here, but not because I want to be. I agree with Gary one hundred percent.
I’m one of those wheelchair passengers for whom Jetway, Jesus is not going to come. I will be That Person who uses the back of the seat in front of her to lever her way up,.because that is the only way I can stand up. I prefer that if you are the person in that seat, that you will have stood up before.I have to use your seat to stand myself up.
The moment I step into the aisle, I slow down deplaning for everyone else, even though I am, of course, all packed up and ready to go. I’m simply slow.
So when i’m sitting there waiting for others to leave, I am not sitting there and silently judging you. I’m cheering you on!
I have no problem if people get up and get their stuff out of the overhead bin, my issue is when they then run to the front of the plane and block those people from getting their stuff out because they’re clogging the isle. Get up, get your crap but stay at your assigned row!!
If you are in an aisle seat you should definitely stand up and get off the plane as soon as possible. But if you are in a middle or window seat you should wait your turn until the aisle is clear of people already standing and ready to deplane. What you should never do is hold up the aisle and allow someone who is seated and not ready to deplane to stand up and block the aisle while getting into the overhead bin. and thereby block the 30 people behind you who are ready to deplane.
Agree with the author. To the Karen’s on here that think it’s rude, get a life.
Window seats 4 eva! No stress levels at landing
The only annoying thing is the person who clearly had everything ready at landing, who runs up the aisle a few rows and now is standing in front of the people who should be standing and unloading.
@Shannon the Slow — Respect. I’d imagine those Jetway, Jesus folks take away already strained and limited resources from folks such as yourself who actually need the assistance. I’m glad you still ‘get around’ as I know that must not be easy. Take care out there!
This article is completely on point. We need to make an opposite shirt. “Stand up and get your junk out of the overhead AND the seat back AND under the seat and ready to get off so you don’t block everyone behind you”
Totally agree here. As a regular aisle seat holder with longer legs and feeling my 40s, having the chance to stretch my legs a bit while waiting also helps avoid an embarrassing cramp and possible delay for those behind me versus having to get up and start walking immediately. Plus I do tend to travel with a seat cushion and tablet, so it’s nice to have those safely stored in my bags before my row starts moving and everyone’s waiting for me. If anything the rude ones are those who know they have a dozen small items removed from their carryon and wait to cram it all in on the spot.
I have flown many, many times throughout my career and I agre with Gary totally. I get up and get my bags ready to deplane. So many times, those who sit and wait for rows in front of them to deplane are totally unready and delay everyone behind them I can immediately get out of everyone else’s way when the line moves in front of me. It is those wo get up last minute when the aisle clears and start looking around for their things that cause unnecessary delays. That is discourteous.
There are those of us who, while an EXP for the last 8 years, have to fly the least logical fare presented in Concur due to company or government policy, no exceptions.
Many of my flights are booked at only 5-7 days before the flight. Closer aisle seats are rarely available, and when I mentioned 32 minutes in an earlier post, my bad, I meant 36 minutes in CLT.
I find it funny that those who don’t want to get up are critical of those who do, as if it was a sign of being superior in some way. They seem to be trying to control others (through criticism) when it’s absolutely the majority that do get up – and do so with good reason.
The slowpokes who like to keep everyone behind them waiting as they get their stuff together last minute are not doing anyone any favours and they are the inconsiderate ones. Avoiding the delays & obstructions caused by several passengers doing this throughout the plane is one of the reasons I always try to sit close to the front of the plane. But you do you and just leave the rest of us alone. We’re not obliging anyone to get up who doesn’t want to.
Yet another tempest in a teapot. If these people have a boring life and need drama they get a t shirt and holler at people. I for 1 can make my own decisions and want to stretch my legs.
the problem isn’t people getting up etc, the problem is people are inconsiderate and pushing their way up a bit which in turn does not allow you to get up etc….this article is written w/1 way of thinking and that is not the way it is on most flights
Very wrong? Hardly. Long story about a couple of very minor points that aren’t worth getting all worked up about. Writer didn’t mention that most people who get up quickly are not doing it to be considerate, just the opposite. They want to get ahead of 3 or 4 people on the way out. And most people opposing the view of the article are correct, bad selfish behavior should not be rewarded.
I’m standing just as soon as I can. If you want to stay seated, good for you! Stop being judgmental. I can get off sooner as I already have my stuff and don’t have to wait for you to get out of the way.
What do the flight attendant say
“Standing up as soon as the airplane stops won’t help you get off sooner.” That’s cute that you think anyone cares what you think. Spoiler Alert — they don’t. If you don’t want to stand up after the seat belt light goes off, then don’t.
I am sooo tired of the selfish hog people who think they have the right because they get on first to put all their carryon in the over head when they are supposed to be put in under the seats!!! So when I do get up my shjt is further back and I can’t get to it until everyone leaves!!!
Maybe people in the window seats up front should let the folks standing in the aisle behind them with all their things ready to go past first? Maybe treat the aisle like a highway merge and let one party past (if they’re ready) before blocking the aisle to get things out of the overhead bin?
I think the distinction needs to be made between getting after LANDING. And getting up at the gate. All too often people start getting up while the plane is still moving. Some idjits try while the plane is still going 80 mph before even turning off the runway.
As for those saying they need to strech…. y’all had plenty of time before descent. They turn on the seatbelt sign 30 minutes prior to landing. You mean you can’t sit still for 40 minutes?.
I think the distinction needs to be made between getting after LANDING. And getting up at the gate. All too often people start getting up while the plane is still moving. Some idjits try while the plane is still going 80 mph before even turning off the runway.
As for those saying they need to strech…. y’all had plenty of time before descent. They turn on the seatbelt sign 30 minutes prior to landing. You mean you can’t sit still for 40 minutes?.
Had to fly with sciatica and getting up from my aisle seat as soon as the seatbelt light is off was a huge relief – agree with getting a headstart on organizing things as long as I am not barreling over other people. Also if the flight has been delayed, I will wait for people trying to catch connections to go firstbefore getting up even with the sciatic pain. The thing that annoys me the most is during boarding at the gate, passengers wait for their zones to be called while standing IN THE MIDDLE of the airport aisleway where people and their luggage are trying to walk through. Typically the open space in front of the gate agent desk would be empty. Either wait til your zone is called, or line up sideways, but keep the hallways open! It can be done.
This only makes sense if everyone’s bag is actually in their seat’s overhead bin, but I’ve never seen that be the case. If someone’s bag is really far away from them, they can’t get it to because everyone’s standing in the aisle blocking their path.
By not getting out of my seat, I’m being considerate of others so they can easily get to their bag. I guess this only works out with 100% efficiency if EVERYONE did the same thing though, but they don’t. Hence why they should.
How about stand back from the dang luggage carousel? Stand back until you see your bag and get out of everyone’s way.
It’s been my experience that the majority of people get up and gather their stuff to wait to get off.
I have seen people push their way forward, but it (not yet, anyway) doesn’t as common as just standing.
Frequent traveller here. I’m usually in an aisle seat. I stand as soon as the fasten seat belt sign is turned off. I have terrible back pain. Standing relieves the pain from sitting. Standing gives my seat mates some well deserved room. I open the overhead, assist others with getting their bags if asked, and patiently stand there until it is my row’s turn to exit. I always motion for my row mates to exit in front of me. Why do people care if I stand? I know I’m not leaving the plane any sooner. The fact they assume the rationale of my action says more about them.
If you sat for hours, on that flight, you can sit for just a few more minutes until it’s your turn to get off! No need to get all weird and antsy when there is no place to go! When you stand up to grab your bags you actually lean over the person beside you on either side sometimes crowding their space!
I completely disagree with this article!
Sit your ass down and wait till it’s your turn to exit!
Wouldn’t deplaning go much faster if those in the aisle who already have their bags and are ready to go be allowed to go, instead of waiting until EVERYBODY in front of them be allowed to get out of their seats, get their bags from the overhead bins and move out? We don’t load the plane, row by row, front to back. Why unload that way?
I always stand. ASAP. If, like me, you’ve been hit on the head when another passenger couldn’t retrieve her suitcase in the overhead bin without dropping it on my head, you would stand too. Once is enough.