‘Should I Book Another Flight?’ Passenger Obsesses Over Elite Status After Wife Assaulted By Flight Attendant, Dragged Off Plane By Police In Tears

A passenger and his wife were removed from a flight by police after an altercation with a flight attendant, and the passenger is now concernedthat the flight won’t count towards his diamond status. I found this discussion, “Removed from an SAS plane after being assaulted by flight attendant” to be funny in its conclusion.

A flight attendant bumped the passenger’s wife during boarding. She was “in floods of tears” and told the crewmember he was a “bad man.” She was removed – and he stayed on the aircraft without her, but called out the flight attendant “you are a really nasty person” and is shocked that he was then booted as well. They were out of pocket $624 to get home and the airline is telling them to pound sand.

My wife and I were removed from an SAS flight after an attendant barged into my wife as we boarded (in boarding group A), she had to grab the headrest to prevent a fall.

Having seen the incident, the other attendant asked my wife if she ‘was ok?’, my wife respnded, ‘not really, i’ve just been pushed’, attendant stares straight at her and says, ‘well, that’ll be alright then, take your seat.’

…[T]he orginal attendant that pushed my wife leaning over to her and openly stating that yes, he did push her, he needed to get by… what was the fuss? By this time my wife was in floods of tears. She told the attendant he was ‘a bad man, please leave me alone’, he left us. 5 minutes later the police were onboard to escort my wife from the plane.

Now they want to know what to do about their status,

I am [SAS EuroBonus Gold], i had 10 flights booked from 01 Sep to get Diamond. The lack of credit for this flight means I have only 9. Should I book the cheapest flight I can find to get Diamond? Is it worth it?

My own take here is that, while the flight attendant could have done a better job de-escalating the situation after accidentally bumping this passenger’s wife during boarding, it’s on the passenger not to require de-escalation in the first place. It was an obvious accident and there’s no indication the woman was actually hurt in any meaningful way.

More importantly the priorities here are off. His wife was taken off the flight by law enforcement and he (1) stayed on without her, leaving her to fend for herself away from home, and (2) is worrying about his elite status benefits with the airline if they even allow him to fly them any longer!

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Comments

  1. A couple of Karens that were “bumped” by another Karen it looks to me. Airplanes are really tight spaces and over the past 20 years normally have every seat filled. There’s going to be people bumping into people. Deal with it. Or fly private.

  2. Sadly, just another report told by the person removed from the plane. We’ll never know the whole story. But, your issues with the storyteller’s priorities make me wonder about veracity.

  3. This sounds like a high school creative writing assignment. I don’t think any of this really happened.

  4. “A couple of Karens that were “bumped” by another Karen it looks to me.”

    Perfectly said!

  5. After all of that drama, the husband still wanted to pursue airline status? Not all heroes wear capes.

  6. Hmmm, there is something about this story that doesn’t hold up, namely, there is only one side of it being told. Before throwing stones, I’ll await the other side of the story.

  7. two elderly women are at a Catskill mountain resort, and one of ’em says, “Boy, the food at this place is really terrible.” The other one says, “Yeah, I know; and such small portions.”

  8. If there is anything to this and there is any evidence that would stand up in court, the airline could be sued. The cabin crew member may have asked to get by and was refused or ignored, starting this situation. I suppose how the bumping was done would be the concern if it really happened. An accidental bumping while trying to slide by should not be a problem. An on purpose bumping to cause touching would be a problem and could be considered battery in the USA legal system. This situation goes to show that a person should not react to perceived bad actions by the cabin crew. Get in your seats and hold your comments. Wait until the flight is in the air and then quietly and discreetly find out if anyone has a video of the incident. Without a video or a person noting the incident and being willing be a witness (the other flight attendant would probably not be the witness), a lawsuit would be hard to pursue.

  9. I used to think that FA were also right. They can be like the Gestapo secret police. Therefore, give them great respect, even more than they deserve. Chances are that nothing will happen to you if you try to avoid them but you never know. I am lucky not to ever have got into a confrontation with a FA in thousands of flights. I’ve met only a few nasty ones.

    Status is overrated. I no longer have loyalty

  10. Americans (the people, not the airline) don’t look so bad in comparison to some of the stories I am reading from rest of the world. 🙂

  11. @jns – of course the knee jerk response from many Americans is “sue”. So sad. First of all you have no idea where this may have occurred and if suing is even an option (in most of the world you can’t find an ambulance chaser and sue like in the US). Secondly, there is a concept of contributory negligence and if both parties are at fault (likely the case here) it is tough to win a suit. Lastly, the passengers could have let it go instead of escalating and I’m sure that would be brought up. Also, on a plane FAs (and especially pilots) are basically the police and if have power over passengers (which is misused at times) but the passenger is by default in the wrong in most cases.

    BTW I hate the US civil litigation system. I would prefer there but NO ability to sue and people would actually have to deal with things, make informed decisions and live with whatever consequences life may bring.

  12. Miguel should considered that the passenger pursuing a fast track challenge upgrade to Diamond (from Gold) wants the Diamond benefits because they are a frequent SAS flyer and want to financially milk the free same-day changes benefit available to Diamonds as they will be flying SAS a lot anyway? Seems not.

    Given SAS has a near monopoly on a lot of non-stop routes to and from the SAS hub airports, a very frequent flyer on any such routes or who will start/end a lot of trips at SAS hubs could be a completely rational actor in wanting to save money this way. It could also explain why the person wanted to remain on the flight despite the person’s wife being booted — it could be about the money.

  13. I fly a lot of SAS flights. I usually don’t run into grumpy or power-tripping FAs on the airline. But when I do run into an outwardly grumpy Scandinavian FA on SAS, then the chances are extremely high that it would be a middle aged woman working the flight who is grumpy rather than a Scandinavian male FA on the SAS flight.

    But the Americanization of Sweden in particular is having cultural consequences in various ways, and it probably showed up in this deplaning incident.

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