Airline JSX has banned a family from travel, cancelling the return portion of their trip, after their toddler “dropped some chips on the ground” and then threw up as they were deplaning the Embraer-145 aircraft.
If anyone is looking for a recommendation for the least family friendly airline, fly @flyjsx ! They canceled our return flight and banned us from the airline because my toddler dropped some chips on the ground and my baby spit up on our way out.
— [Redacted] December 25, 2022
This has proven highly contentious. Reactions from some travelers has been to applaud the airline, and say they’re more likely to fly JSX – the scheduled charter service that flies to and from private terminals – while others are appalled at cancelling a family’s travel plans because of something that happens from time to time with a young child.
Kids can be messy. Sometimes it’s unavoidable, though it’s not unreasonable for the carrier to want passengers to control (and clean up after) their children. And a child who makes a mess and spits up after one flight might impose those same cleaning costs and possible delay and inconvenience for passengers (both on that flight and the next) on subsequent legs of a journey.
The airline confirms that they don’t abide this behavior, and consider the decision appropriate – to protect themselves and other passengers. According to a JSX spokesperson,
JSX reserves the right to refuse travel to any customers who create a threat to the well-being of our Crewmembers and fellow Customers. While we regret to inconvenience anyone, the safety of our operation remains our paramount priority and appropriate actions are taken, when required, to maintain such an environment.
As the father of a young child I was fortunate to travel all over the world with her, and fortunate that she was a relative breeze. However travel was limited during some of what would have been her most challenging periods by the pandemic.
Is it the case that how you feel about this decision depends on whether you’re a parent or not, or whether you’re the parent of a current toddler or not? I’ve certainly really enjoyed flying JSX and would do so again. But they’ve certainly put parents on notice: you’re responsible for your child’s behavior, and they should be held to the same standard as adults. And not for nothing but I’ve flown with several adult passengers who should be banned under this standard as well. Airline JSX has banned a family from travel, cancelling the return portion of their trip, after their toddler “dropped some chips on the ground” and then threw up as they were deplaning the Embraer-145 aircraft.
Good. Keep the [redacted -gl] at home.
I’m assuming all other pax on JSX have exemplary behavior at all times, and don’t unknowingly leave crumbs on their seats or wrappers in the console?
As a child, I was anxious to grow up and board a flight with smartly dressed passengers in their 20s and 30s, and gorgeous stewardesses in their 20s. Then I grew up and discovered my rambunctious day care was a thousand times more civilized.
Just give me a hazmat suit and sleeping pills si I can fly undisturbed by contemporary culture.
Good. Keep the [removed -gl] and their enabling parents on Southwest.
There has to be more to this story than what’s presented here. I’d like to see some pictures of video of just how bad the mess was and if it was spread over more than their seats.
It doesn’t pass the smell test with me.
I’m sure it was more than “some chips“. Most likely it would have been a huge mess. Of course adults can make the same mess and they should be treated as the same. I’ve never flown this airline, nor am I familiar with it but by the picture it appears to be a somewhat premium offering. That being the case, this is probably very reasonable if someone is paying a significant premium to fly in a more isolated environment the last thing they would want to hear, is a screaming baby, throwing things all over the place, and potentially vomiting all over as well. At the end of the day, it’s best, just simply to not travel with small babies. No one ever wins. Babies tend to be miserable themselves, and everyone around them tend to be just as miserable, so best to simply avoid all together.
Family should fly Spirit. No matter how kids are noisy or messy, they are always welcomed!
Sorry but this seems a little suspect. It is hard to believe that a child dropping chips and a spitting up would cause an airline to ban them. I have a feeling there is more to this than is being reported.
Yes please ban unruly pax and parents who refuse to control their kids. It causes suffering for the other pax – why should we all suffer bc some parent won’t act responsibly
I’d be willing to bet that it was the parents’ actions and behaviors that got the family banned, not the kid’s.
Agree with everyone else, it definitely has to be more than “some chips”. For someone to get banned and have their return flights cancelled, it had to have been really bad. Every once in a while we’ve seen photos of the mess that some families left when deboarding a plane, it wouldn’t surprise me if that was the case for this person too.
If the kid left a giant mess, is it that hard to clean up after their mess? Sure, it’s not their home. However, having the etiquette and courtesy to clean up after your family isn’t a big ask, regardless of where you are.
an adult here. To say that you know, when you are sick, you often cannot have any control over bodily functions. Kid or adult. IT’s a dreadful feeling or horribly embarrassing to have such a problem/accident in public. But to ban people? Although if the basis for the move was concern re the spread of illnesss I totally agree.
It is commonplace these days that entitled parents think that someone will pick up after their kids. Hate to see what their homes look like.
This is always a controversial issue. I flew a trip home yesterday in F class. Two year old in front of me screamed and yelled the whole two hour trip. Annoying, very much so. Ban the family, I would not.
At JSX, when the “chips” are down, get rid of the clowns.
When in doubt, throw them out!!!
Definitely a JSX hit job here. Likely excluded:
1) Parents told to clear up chips — refused. Doubtless they were acutley concious of what good people they were;
2) Parents told to pay for vommit cleaning (including removing the smell). Again, acutley concious of what good people they were;
I bet if Gary’s daughter did the latter he would be profously embarrassed and offer to pay. If the airline declined he would whip out his phone and say “name me a charity that I can contribute $100 to on the web in recogniton of the cleaning crew at JSX”.
These parents thought the other passengers should contribute tro them.
Something seems off about this story. I’m sure there is more to the story although she says there isn’t on her Twitter feed. I’m surprised a liberal like her would use up so much carbon footprint to fly a semi-private jet for a Christmas trip but it was a good idea not to fly Southwest I guess.
Evidently, we do not have as much information as commenters would like. My thought is that JSX need to inform prospective passengers in easily readable writing of the policy that resulted in the couple in question being banned. Verbal notice will not suffice, nor will fine print somewhere on the ticket.
That said, from the information provided it appears that the parents were unprepared for the disturbance their child created. Wise parents, even if inexperienced, should know that a young child may drop food, toys, etc., and experience gastric distress, i.e., throw up, spit up, have diarrhea, etc., and be prepared to keep the mess to a minimum.
We’re not told how the parents and flight attendants interacted. Attitudes play an often-determining role in how rules, procedures, and regulations are enforced.
Let’s hope that all parents who fly JSX with young children will bear in mind the effect their youngsters’ behavior may have on the crew and other passengers and keep their cool, behaving courteously and with understanding when their children exhibit disturbing behavior.
Meh, I’d rather fly a plane filled with toddlers then most members of the general public.
Although to be be fair, I’ve always enjoyed “inconveniencing” anyone who thinks flying is a right reserved only for them.
Everyone was a child at some point. I will boycot this airline. Screw all you arrogant tupes out there. Just shows the level of self indulgence this society has become!
I would bet the house that there is WAY more to this story than what she has posted on Twitter. There are always 2 sides to every story.
Maybe I’m an a-hole but I just booked a flight with JSX for an upcoming trip *because* of this story.
There is more to it per some folks I know more familiar with it. It wasn’t just simple crumpled chip. The parents attitude had a lot to do with it apparently.
Not buying this for a moment.
Suspect the real answer is the parents handed the kid a bag of chips and the kid threw them all over while the parents laughed and thought it was cute.
Does anyone really thing the parents are telling the whole story?
Agree with most comments, there’s more to the story than poor mom lets on. I’ve taken my kids on flights and if they spilled something I had them clean it up. It’s called accountability.
Again, there is more to this story than the family is saying. I’m sure the airline is not being that petty.
This begs the question, should the parent(s) be thrown off, or the child? Now I’m not advocating for throwing them all off at once, I’m not even advocating for banningvthem permanently. I believe that had they taken appropriate measure and thrown the mother off the flight ✈️ mid-air, the father might have properly cared for the child thereafter. Of course, the airline could have also chosencto throw the child out of a window and the parents might then have realized they should have cared for their child sleightly better. Either way, a complete ban of the whole family seems a bit drastic.
For folks saying there is something else going on here, JSX did not make any suggestion to that effect when I reached out.
Thank you JSX for standing your ground and making flying more comfortable for the rest of us.
My general attitude to this is that parents do not have the right to inflict their children on others. The folk who booked a JSX flight did so because they wanted comfort and less hassle. (never flown them, may give them a try) That’s not what they got. Sorry, but just because you spawned another human doesn’t mean you get to share them with everyone else. That’s why you have a car.
Now let’s re-write this to an airport club… same comments
@Gary: JSX is hardly likely to say anything. To do so invites some kind of lawsuit from this fathead woman. To say nothing has achieved their objective of getting her off their planes to make them a better place for everybody.
Their focus on customer service is so total it is almost certain they had good reason for their actions.
@T: “…I will boycot this airline. Screw all you arrogant tupes out there. Just shows the level of self indulgence this society has become!”
And you can use your extra time spent in airport terminals working on your appalling sentence composition.
UPDATE: Caroline Chatham @thecipster is now blocking everybody on Twitter who is critical of her. Not only a strong sign of guilt but also biasing the content of the tweets you see.
@L3 – 1000% agree with everything you’ve said!!
@L3 – airlines, including this one, will at least usually offer some context on background
Ya don’t really know what actually happened. I will bet that the back story is a lot more interesting than just dropping a few chips and spitting up. I have had children who flew with me to and from Europe, but never once did I have to correct disruptive behavior. When one of my sons was about 10 he was seated a row behind me next to a businessman in first class. At the end of the long flight the man gave him a $5.00 bill for being such a good companion. Kids can be disruptive and unpleasant if they know that the parents will not correct them or fault them for it. Parents who look the other way when kids act up make flying awful for other passengers.
Good, Stay home with your monster and don’t bother everyone with your entitlement and obnoxious manners … take UA, they love guys like you
Sounds like the same type of parent that allows her child to run amuck in a restaurant and stick his hands in the mashed potatoes on the buffet ,pull all the drink levers, climb on counters whilst saying nothing Until he/she gets hurt. Kudos to the airline!
JSX must know where they make their money. I’m willing to bet it is adult kids that have modestly better chip handling skills and only vomit for “good reasons” but I could be wrong. At least now we all know this. So everybody wins.
It must have been quite egregious for them to have been banned.
*aplause* now that’s a first class airline, putting the vast majority of their customers needs first. Definitely getting my business.
another woke liberal crying about not getting special treament.
I am 32 years old and have a 6 year old Son. When my wife got pregnant we made the decision to not do things inappropriate for children until the time was right. When we wanted to go out for dinner we got a babysitter, because when we go out to eat, we don’t want screaming kids around us, and until our son was about 4 or 5, getting him to consistently behave properly was a challenge. We didn’t take him on commercial flights for the same reason. Now that he is a bit older, we can set expectations and hold him to those. Parents need to learn that having a child is a life changing event, and expecting others to deal with your kids is unacceptable. Not everyone has kids, and your child is not their responsibility. To my wife and I, having a child put us on a 4 to 6 year sabbatical of being the traditional “public” people we used to be. Was it tough? Yes! Was it the right thing to Do? Absolutely. People need to realize that a child impacts how you live your life and plan on avoiding public settings until your child can behave appropriately.
As a plus, we learned to enjoy the long road trips as a family (much like our parents did with us), and got out of the laziness of just jumping on an airplane when a 5 or 6 hour drive would get is there.
Interestingly, on Twitter, somebody asks:
“Have you reimbursed for the cost of cleaning?”
And she replies:
“I would’ve happily paid for the two napkins it likely took to clean it up. I was holding a baby and bags at the time otherwise would have done it myself.”
So, evidently being a parent excuses you from cleaning up after yourself – too important – the strutting superior attitude of a self entitled super parent all too happy to shite on other people!
And then not only did she fail to clean up after her baby and brat, she didn’t offer to pay for the cleaning, and, most troublingly, evidently has no idea about basic health and hygiene standards (she seems to think two napkins are sufficient clean up the mucous or puke or sloppy milk, or whatever that came out of her baby’s slobbering mouth – give me strength!).
Thanks to @ Gary Leff’s former review and this incident, I’m looking at using JSX for their NY (Westchester) to MIA service on my upcoming round-the-world trip.
To note, that JSX has been recognised for their efforts in training their staff to handle kids with autism. To quote Forbes:
“A few years back, JSX CEO Alex Wilcox was on a business trip when he encountered a family with a child on the autism spectrum. The child was so distraught by the sights, sounds, and overall airport experience that the family couldn’t board the plane. Wilcox felt he could do something about this at JSX.
“After that encounter, Wilcox was dedicated to building on JSX’s existing strengths by empowering crew members to serve people with autism and their families better, furthering the air carrier’s mission of offering simple, joyful, and reliable air travel for all.”
Evidently, not the sort of company a self entitled parent should be publicly trashing in terms of their commitment to traveling families!
@ L3
There are still plenty of dissenting counter Tweets in the thread.
Tellingly, the original tweet only garnered 36 likes out of 10,000 views…..;)
@Spencer H: Very cogently stated.
Can’t stand dealing with kids and always try to move away if I have a choice on a flight. JSX has the right idea and I’d be happy flying with them.
also @Spencer H thank you for being the type of person and parent that I wholeheartedly respect. I’m glad there are still people like you in this world. I hope others can take your words to heart and consider similar measures.
Maybe a child’s repeated upchucking of food had some in the flight crew thinking the children had a norovirus infection or something like that?
Either way, it’s no fun to have to clean up the biological waste — and burp and vomit upchuck can be categorized like that — from bodily movements that aren’t exactly fully under control.
Adult passengers can vomit on the floor of planes and make messes with food too. Usually adults can manage to get a “barf bag” and use it before the vomit comes all the way up, but not always. And the cause of vomiting isn’t always an infection — it could be the product of motion sickness, airline food poisoning, allergic reactions, etc.
Airline no-fly list for those adults too?
I’d like to know how many passengers on plane. And if any saw what went on.
Also…how much they paid for flight. How much refunded.
Some of the above comments are incredibly mean and stupid. So none of them started out an infant?
Somehow I suspect there might be just a wee bit more to the story. But she’s had her 15 minutes of fame, so hopefully will change her attitude next flight. This airline seems to not be very interested in having children as pax … can’t blame them.
If the chips and such were as minimal as the mom apparently claimed and the parents were conscientious about the cleanup, the airline wouldn’t have had a reason to ban them. Do the math.
There is no excuse for anyone to leave a mess on an aircraft, be he man, woman or child. Yet many do so, feeling it’s their right because they paid for their fare;
Others do it to be spiteful because doesn’t everyone love to hate the airlines?
Self righteous stuck up snobs that probably don’t raise their own children. “There must be more to the story.” Why, so you can find comfort in agreeing that “a child shouldn’t fly”? I’m tired of the upper class.
There’s no reason she should have been banned. It’s life. You own a business, you know it’s going to happen. It’s part of airfare. Does that give someone the right to be blatantly messy, no. Most adults are worse than children. Entitled.
As one who had to endure 12-14 hour deadheads, infants and children in F and J are rarely welcome by most travelers. Once had a father pass out ear plugs to surrounding passengers. What a way to start a midnight flight from NAN to LAX. It didn’t help. Should have passed out Bose noise cancelling headsets. Upgrading your family . . . just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
Maybe Gary should be banned for libel, given he didn’t bother to get more facts. Why can’t the mother in the story post pictures of the aircraft if 2 napkins really could have cleaned it, or is that too because her hands were full?
Ya sure !! There is always more to a story.
Likely it wasn’t just the kid’s fault.
The problem is that she flew JSX, which does not have overhead storage bins, and I can understand her not wanting to gate-check her baby.
She should have cleaned up her kids’ messes! Entitled Karen! More to the story I’m sure!
I absolutely agree with you Jenn. I have seen parent (s) ignoring their kid(s) behavior
I’m a school bus driver, ( yes I know not the same) but I deal with the same mess kids leave behind, when they are older. They think it’s ok to leave it or Do It. Because that’s part of a driver’s job, to clean up.. after them.
As someone who has worked for an airline 12+ years. I’ve seen plenty. Yes, sometimes people get sick on a flight. We’ve all have dropped “a few chips” every now and again. I’m 89% sure the “few chips” that were dropped were also crushed to tiny pieces. Parents definitely let their kids have free reign as long as they keep quiet. If it means leaving a mess, so be it. Many adults in First Class are just as messy. “Banned” is a strong word, they were simply “Not invited to travel with JSX ever again”.
You know there is much more to the story than this.
Likely the kid was cranky long before they threw up on the way out.
People fly that airline to AVOID the noisy messy masses.
Good on the airline for not trying to setting the story straight, but merely repeating their policy. Shows class.
My son is now 18 but when he was an infant we traveled all over the place with him. However, I was always cognizant of his behavior and how his behavior affected anybody around me. For example, there was no kicking seats or poking fingers or feet through seats and I always told the aircraft to see this all the way in the back so we were close to the bathroom and less annoying of other passengers. I’m sure there’s more to this story than meets the eye, but I find it incredulous how so many parents just let their children do horrible behavior on planes nowadays with no repercussions to how it affects anybody else on a flight.
January 1, 2023
I have traveled all over. Flying, bus, and train. With and w/o my children. Not all parents care how their children act. Other parents worry them self sick about children’s behavior. My experience has been, 75% of the parents just give up teaching their kids to behave, too much trouble! Put on you ear buds and listen to music.
I do wonder if JAX was a bit too fast in their decision? What’s the rest of the story??
I am a mom. Everywhere I took my daughter I ALWAYS made sure the area we were in was picked up. Always. It only takes just a minute or two to pick up. It A) sets an example to your kid that NOBODY is here to pick up after you and B) is couteous. Not hard to do. So yeah, if any business wants to kick these people out, let them. I get so tired if watching people use the excuse of having kids to be cheesy and rude.
If I was the airline owner i will do the same. Control your kids and respect others people property
Gotta love the rejects who use the word Karen. Society is so trash nowadays.
This standard should also be held up in restaurants. Some parents let their children completely decimate a table or booth.
This company has changed. It has not been consistent from what it has advertised. The customer service and constant delays has been noticed by the customers.
Welcome to the airline industry.
I traveled all over the world with my children. They were taught appropriate behavior for when on flights, in restaurants, and social venues.
This is just courtesy, that many seem to be oblivious to.
As a private business, that (any) airline is perfectly within its rights to have a policy of “no passengers under 10 years of age” or something like that, should they so desire.
When I was flying a lot for work, I would have >cheerfully< paid a premium for a flight with that kind of guarantee. I needed that time to work or, if I was lucky, to catch a nap.
Not the same, but similar enough… During college (late 80’s) I worked in a gourmet cookie shop in the elite part of town in a very upscale mall. We were required to have everything cleaned, til counted, floor mopped, and the gate locked within a half hour of closing. Families would come in at 5 minutes to, expecting fresh cookies and they would sit at a table and allow their children to throw cookie bits (spilling juice/pop, smashing chocolate bits, smearing dirty hands everywhere) on the freshly-mopped floor. For a $5 sale, I would need to remop a quarter of the floor and still try to make it out on time. I would certainly have banned those customers “for life” if I could have. I get it, and yes, video needed as I’m sure there are two sides to this.
I’m the mom from the post, and would like to clarify a few things, especially if it might help future families make a choice to use or not use JSX. Many of the assumptions made about my family and me are untrue although I can see why people would jump to the conclusion that we are egregious people given the outcome of getting banned!
In terms of our interactions with the crew member, my husband said he could see her turn on us a bit when the two year old dropped the chip into the aisle. She said it would be a pain to clean up because someone stepped on it and he apologized. I had a brief interaction with her when she offered us drinks. I quickly (and I thought politely) declined drinks for the kids because I brought them their own water bottles so they wouldn’t spill anything. I also gave her our trash when she came around. Again, what I thought were normal interactions. It is worth mentioning that I heard her complaining to another passenger about having to work on Christmas a few days later so it is possible we just caught her on a bad day?
Kids were mostly well-behaved, but our two-year old (the one who dropped the chip) did cry at one point. Not a tantrum or anything, but she cried for a few minutes. I was sitting behind her (with the infant on my lap, next to our older child) and my husband doesn’t remember at this point what it was about. This is age appropriate behavior and not as bad as what I’ve seen elsewhere. The airline knew her age when they sold us her ticket. My four year old son was quietly watching his tablet the entire time. The baby was good as well – cried at one point and I quickly settled her. I was even able to read a little since they were doing fine.
It seems the worst infraction was the baby spit up. Not sure I could’ve prevented this one unfortunately. For those of you who have not flown with a baby before, you need to feed them on the way up and down to encourage them to swallow so their little ears don’t clog. It is NOT vomit and is the same milk that just gets spit back up. I wish I found a way to wipe that up but it didn’t seem very bad and I did not want to hold up others from disembarking. I also had nowhere to put the baby (she doesn’t know how to sit up unassisted yet). At the risk of sounding like an entitled POS, I did assume they’d be cleaning between flights and it did not seem to me like it would require any extra time. When we told the flight attendant about it (and again apologized) she did not indicate that there was a problem.
We were not perfect, but I don’t believe the punishment fits the “crime”. I thoroughly read their code of conduct (which they linked to in their email to me on Christmas morning) and it does not mention anything about spit up, normal kid behavior, or even vomit.
I believe a warning would’ve been sufficient and not a ban. Maybe a ban after we completed our trip? Inform us that there is a fee because of the spit up? If the crushed chip or spit up (or perhaps something I am not aware of?) caused any extra fees, I would have covered that cost.
In case someone is reading this as they consider booking JSX with kids, I’ll leave you with one last tip. Do not leave your car in their lot in case this also happens to you! It was challenging to get to our car when we had to fly another airline home (we can’t just grab a taxi since we need three car seats. It is also not accessible via public transit). I called and emailed JSX several times requesting help with this throughout the week and never heard back.
Mistakes were made. Lessons were learned. Onwards, and certainly not upwards anytime soon.
@Mom: Superficially, you sound so reasonable, but on Twitter you blocked people who disagreed with you, even when the criticism was reasonable. So your explanation here now looks like you ban people when you can, but change tactics and try a ‘de minimus’ explanation of events when you can’t.
It doesn’t smell of sincerity I am afraid.
Love it. Adding JSX to my favorites list.
I was taking all the comments on Twitter very personally and did block people. I am not very familiar with the platform, and also think I do not belong there (I’m too sensitive). I thought that blocking only meant that I wouldn’t see their posts – I don’t think if you block someone that other people also can’t see their posts or replies?
Anyway, it does seem like you and I have different opinions on what’s reasonable because the people I blocked I found to be quite hurtful and unkind. While I don’t expect you to believe me, I am a nice person.
@Mom: Airlines are not in the business of banning passengers. Your experience with JSX is a one-off experience, i.e., we do not hear reports of mass banning of parents traveling with children.
Why did they decide to pick on you? Even a flight attendant in a bad mood could not accomplish a banning. The fact that it took a couple of days indicates the incident was reviewed by management.
I simply do not find it credible that JSX banned you for a single chip on the floor and a small amount of milk regurgitated by an infant.
While you may feel the banning was not warranted and wish to harm them in the court of public opinion, I believe JSX under these circumstances.
They are just wanting money. I fly JSX and thank them. It’s not SWA
JSX is legit. I fly with them often. These passengers are probably the same people that sit in the airport lounges for hours as they sleep and their kids are going ballistic screaming and running around like monkeys. If you have this age of kids just go to the lounge get what you need and leave and let your kid run wild in the concourse. Nobody will even notice. Kids can be messy jerks only if you let them. Fly JSX you will love it.
I have been considering JSX for a while. It’s not an airline for children really. I think there is more to this story though, I am sure the adults were as unruly as the child.
As someone who was janitor, mechanic, maintenance, and detailer for a smaller charter company, I’d rather clean up after kids. I have spent hours on my hands and knees removing alcohol, blood, and other bodily fluids from surfaces on top of trying to turn and maintain an aircraft for the next flight. I’ll take some spit up and chips any day over drunk Uncle Jimmy spilling a goddamn drink on the carpet, or pissing anywhere but where it belongs in the bathroom. Kids are easy, adults are like wild animals.
This is EXACTLY the kind of circumstance people pay big bucks to fly on JSX and get away from.
Kudos to JSX for thinking of their customer base first and foremost.
I’m sure there is more to the story, like the baby crying the whole time.
Right off the bat I can see where these people are coming from. With 1×1 seating, they have a 4-year old sitting essentially by himself.
Can you say “entitled”?
Ohhhhhhh! My mistake!
Not a 4 year old. A 2 year old sitting by herself.
“She cried for ‘a few minutes’.”
A lap infant, a 2-year old and 4 -year old on a JSX 30-seat 1×1 configured plane…
What could possibly go wrong with all that “age appropriate behavior”?
People choose JSX to avoid that kind of Southwest Airlines environment and even if you can afford the big bucks you pay for 4 JSX seats, that doesn’t mean your kids are miraculously free from “age appropriate behavior.”