Southwest Airlines is back in dress-code drama after a passenger accused a flight attendant of telling her to “pull your shirt up” before she could fly, saying the comment singled out her body and birthmarks.
The clash is awkward for an airline that built its brand on LUV and once leaned into cheeky marketing—and it highlights the core problem with airline attire rules today: they’re vague, discretionary, and enforced unevenly from one crew member to the next.
Houston-based baseball card trader, motorcycle and lifestyle influencer and OnlyFans model “Mayhem” describes herself as an exhibitionist, but Southwest Airlines wasn’t having any of that on any of their flights this week. She says a flight attendant required her to pull her shirt up in order to fly.
Despite the salacious bio, she honestly doesn’t look like that different to me than the median passenger on Southwest!
To the @SouthwestAir flight attended who told me to "pull your shirt up" – birthmarks are birth defects! You shouldn't be commenting on people's bodies while on the clock. No LUV here. pic.twitter.com/TwwtNtIG4O
— Mayhem (@More__Mayhem) January 21, 2026
It was 18 years ago that Kyla Ebbert had 15 seconds of worldwide fame getting kicked off a Southwest Airlines flight for her outfit (‘too sexy to fly’). Back then the airline ran a fare sale based on the publicity,
Southwest Airlines today faces the bare facts and reveals the naked truth by issuing an apology to its Customers who have commented about its handling of a few who were dressed in revealing clothing. …Southwest has lowered its already skimpy fares to “mini-skirt” size of $49 to $109 one-way.
“Some have said we’ve gone from loving hot pants to having hot flashes but nothing could be farther from the truth, “said Southwest’s CEO Gary Kelly. “The publicity caught us with our pants down, quite frankly. The story has such great legs, but we have an even better sense of humor, so we’re going to jump out there and lower our fares to match the mini skirts we’ve all been hearing so much about.”
This is an airline that plastered Israeli model Bar Refaeli in a bikini on the side of one of their 737s, which I take as prima facie evidence that the attire in question doesn’t violate Southwest’s standards of what’s appropriate to fly.
Here are Southwest’s original flight attendant uniforms, designed by their original President’s wife. The airline’s ticker symbol is LUV. The peanuts they used to serve onboard were “Love Bites.” Their original ticketing machines were called Quickies.

The days of getting dressed up on planes, like you would for formal dinner on a cruise ship, are long gone. Over the past few years there haven’t been as many business travelers in business attire either. Dress guidelines are vague and left to the interpretation and discretion of gate agents and flight crew.


Seat assignments, charging for bags, and now less cleavage? Welp, that’s the last straw… how am I gonna use my $500 Chase Sapphire Reserve $75K benefit now?! *grunt*
That picture from the 1970s is of some very pretty young ladies. The one from today is a women with a lot of middle aged sagging but thinking she’s Only Fans material. Ditto middle aged men wearing a wife beater with growing man boobs.
Is this “story” even legit? Girl can’t even spell. How do we know it wasn’t the gate agent that told her? Surely a better story would have been the good news about SW this week. This is heresay and a pic of her boobs. Please do better. Just sayin.
I was allegedly victimized and shamed for wearing a definitely not sexualised outfit in an inappropriate place. I felt humiliated at the attention drawn to me.
World, please now pay attention to me as I claim victimhood status on social media, while posing provocatively in the same definitely not sexual outfit.
Woman who exposes that much cleavage at the airport has nothing much else going for her. No cleavage, no midriffs, no Daisy Dukes, no wife beaters, no bare feet. Who wants to sit so close as you have to in economy next to some stranger’s bare skin?
I’ll say it again since you obviously can’t take or post criticism. Do better.
These weirdo clothing police types need to go to the beach and see what people are wearing to put their demands into perspective.
Separate issue, but related to Southwest: there’s been a delay in points posting from the Chase SW cards, as reported by DoC. Any word on that Gary?
I’ve never understood the impetus to control things like that. You’re just going to start a controversy, and what do you really gain?
@Tizzette – I do. Rather see a set of mostly exposed hooters besides me then some overweight guy. Or a bare midriff.